So here the stuff. Me and my ex dated for a little over a year, we broke up in September. I've dated a few guys since then but tbh I'm not a relationship focused woman, I'm career focused everything else will come and go as it does. But my ex (he lives in Germany and I in Canada) is someone I loved and tbh think I still do love. We remained friends as we mostly left on good terms. Though the last few month of our relationship was full of fighting, about his smoking cigs and drinking every night and not having a job blah blah. I ended it officially in September and it was hard. But I really miss him even though I've dated others and I just don't know what to do. I also dont like he has a foot fetish, I hate my feet being touched. So I guess dating him again isnt a good idea but I wanna get some advice from other people and maybe see if there's a chance he and I could be together. Or I need to be talked down if it doesn't seem like a good idea.