Okay I’m an absolute clean freak, I can’t stand mess at all and I shower like twice everyday and keep a good skin care routine and all that. I always smell good and just keep everything decent as would be expected right? I know boys aren’t as pretty and clean smelling as girls and I would never say this to my boyfriend, but sometimes I legit cringe about him. Don’t get me wrong he is so handsome and not just saying that cuz I love him like he’s actually a good looking guy, but his house is a mess like it’s not clean at all I walk around with shoes just cuz I don’t want my feet getting dirty touching the floor, his dogs black hair is everywhere and his bathroom walls are peeling off and there’s dust and grime everywhere. There’s always shit in his room like his bed isn’t made and sometimes stuff is just thrown everywhere and there’s no where to sit and it’s so congested and just awful. I hate feeling this way but sometimes I can’t even stand going to his house or kissing him or being close to him. I don’t know what to do cuz hygiene wise we’re complete opposites. Sometimes he smells like his breathe and just him in general. I know I take it to the extreme with showering and not letting a sock touch the floor, but I wish he was at least neat. Has anyone else dealt with this I just really don’t know how to handle it? I don’t wanna come off sounding awful either because his family and him are the sweetest people ever I love them all so much! I just don’t want this jeopardizing our relationship.