How to improve sex life?

Question

We’ve been together 2 years. He’s the only guy I’ve been with, though he’s been with other girls. I kind of wish I slept with more people before, but I’d wanted it to be with someone special and it never had felt right before. anyway, I have a higher drive than him. In the beginning of our relationship we had sex every day, sometimes multiple times, but then it averaged out to 3-5 times a week depending on what was going on. I’ve never orgasmed and I kind of wish we could improve our sex. usually i like our sex, but sometimes I’m just getting going when he finishes. I’m ok with short sex if we had sex more often (like multiple times a day) but we don’t typically. I try surprising him with lingerie sometimes and it’s usually pretty good then, but it’s not an every day solution. Is this normal? What are some tips to help improve it?

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Try incorporating toys, massage oils, or lubes. Those worked for me. Toys are also great because you can use them alone lol. But honestly, talk to him about any fetishes or desires he may have, and be honest when voicing your own. Sometimes you just have to be brave and vocal to get what you want.  I did with my husband and things have been great since. Good luck honey.

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Yes you're normal. No worries there :)
The only way to make it better is to have a discussion with your so. Not when you are having or about to have sex - at a random time when you're spending time together at home.  No judgements, no statements that point blame.  Just an open talk about your sex life and how you feel.  That you would like more. And it also sounds like you need a lot more foreplay.
My husband and i have had many discussions about sex and things slowly improved.  I still want more but I'm working up to that lol
Heck, maybe let him read your post to open the conversation :)

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Talk about it.... let him know how you feel in a subtle but firm way.... because you don’t wanna bruise his ego and make him think he’s not man enough.... that would just be the worst.... tell him about your fantasies.... try roll play... something spontaneous ... and new... use toys and lubes .... I mean there’s a lot of sexual adventures you can explore..... spice it up.... it might get better and you’d finally get to cloud 9😉😉😉😉
Best wishes😘

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he needs to learn how to get you off