During arguments

During arguments he says I don’t care about him, his feelings, how he feels, I don’t listen it’s all about me me me me

However when we aren’t arguing

I ask him throughout the week a few times a day I do not ask these all at once

Say on Monday I’m like how are you

Or Wednesday are you ok?

So yes during the week I’ll ask things such as

How are you

Are you ok

Are you irritated by something I feel like you are

It seems something is bothering you

Etc

He ALWAYS answers with

I’m fine

Why

I’m tired

Just stop

Nothings wrong, why???

Et

Than days later he’s like hers what was bothering me Tuesday he says it in anger

Is he right during arguments I don’t care about him, his feelings etc ???