My husband and I are trying to buy a house, his grandparents are gifting us the the down payment and closing cost. We find out tomorrow how much we have to have for the down payment, and how much we can get for a loan. We live in a small 2 bedroom trailer with our two kids(8 year old boy and 1 year old girl). We found the house we both love and hoping that it stays available until we can put an offer in and if we can get enough for it. So on top of that, I put mine and my husband’s credit on the line for my mom and her husband two years ago and got them a car(they make the payments) and it’s just in our name until it’s paid off(next year), well my mom called and said to send it back to the bank, she no longer wants to make the payments. Like thanks, but that’s not gonna happen 🙅. We have a rocky relationship and I happen to live down the road from them. She doesn’t like that I am moving, she found out last week and now she can’t make the payments(she can, just she doesn’t want me to move). When I say rocky relationship, I mean my mom has to have control of my life, I’m expected to drop everything when she calls and do for her and if I don’t, she threatens CPS or says that I’m dumb and pos etc.. it’s been like this my whole life; I knew I shouldn’t of put my credit on the line for her, but our relationship was going good and I felt like she was being a mom.. I want to cry but my husband says we will take the car and make the payments so we can still move. So I called her and told her that we will keep it and make payments so we can get our house we want, and her attitude changed and was like well we might be able to pay for it still. I just don’t understand why a mother wouldn’t want the best for their children. I’m trying to stay positive. I want the best for my children and this move will be the best, especially since my mom can’t drive past every hour to know what I’m doing, they even know when I’m up or awake. On top of all the I’m trying to finish my Ged, the practice test I took and passed so now to the actual test and hopefully to pass. Sorry for this being so long but I need to vent.