I am currently pregnant with my second child. My mother doesn't know (she'd kill me), and my boyfriend does. We both live with my mom. My daughter is my mother's FIRST grandchild.. I'm almost 23 and I want to leave from her house. My boyfriend wants me and my daughter to move to Virginia to stay with his mom until we get our place out there. My mother keeps asking me to move with her. I'm torn. I love my mother, but I also want to be with the father of my child. He says I'm letting her control me, and that I should make decisions as an adult. It's better work opportunities in Virginia and a better life for my children. What should I do?? I'm so lost rn. Live my life? Or live the life my mother wants me to?