I been married for almost 3 years. Those three years my husband comes and goes as he pleases. Today he told me he had left his phone at work around 4:30 he left . Came back home around 11 drunk. I just had a baby 8 weeks ago. He had two jobs . But lately i don’t see the money. I buy the baby most of the things. I am home , i clean i cook laundry take care of the baby. Even on his days off i take care of the baby. Am so sick of him leaving and not knowing where he goes or who he is with. He lies all the time. I feel bad for my baby but I can not continue arguing , telling him how to act. I feel like the relationship is toxic.. I kicked him out the house because he always do the same shit over and over again. I cried because am hurt he never takes ownership of his actions and plays the victim . Lately i just can’t stand him anymore.. I don’t know what else to do. He said he’ll dissapear if I kick him out.