Me and this guy let’s call him A- started having sex in the beginning of January. We were not in a relationship (anymore) so we didn’t own loyalty to each other, if anything he acted like he didn’t care if I got with anyone else even though I knew I would hate it if he got with another girl. Anyways, I had the implant so we had constant unprotected sex throughout the next couple months - literally all year until now

Back when we were having sex, He got tested in January, and I got tested in February. Both our results came back negative

However in April we stopped fucking and speaking for a little. I got with somebody else and gave him oral. We did not have sex, or anal just oral, and just one time

I told A rhat I was chatting to other people but not the extent to what was happening

I acted irresponsibly as after i did something with someone else I should have went and got a check up straight away

However it took me a month to do so, and by that time me and A were already having sex again. He wasn’t aware that I had been with someone else

I got tested last week (blood tested and I had to insert a swab inside me) and my results came back positive for Gonorrhea. I told A Straight away and we both had to go to the clinic together because if I had it, he definitely did too. He was so mad at me and told me that he definitely hadn’t got with anyone else so it was definitely me that gave it to him and not me that got it FROM him.

Anyways this might sound like a really stupid question so I’m sorry, but is it possible to get Gonorrhea DOWN THERE if I only gave oral to the guy? Doesn’t that mean I get oral Gonorrhea? I was literally so stressed that day I forgot to even ask the nurse. But please answer