I want to start with this:

Please if you’re going to be nasty scroll on. Seriously I get enough of that.

So I’m one of those rare women with no motherly instinct. I don’t want children. I have absolutely nothing against women who do. My best friend is actually trying to get pregnant and I’ve got my fingers crossed for her. I’m happy for her and her husband. With that said, pregnancy grosses me out. Makes me physically nauseous and I get the creepy crawlies thinking about it. I had someone that wanted me to feel the baby kick when I was a bit younger and I wanted to throw up when I felt it. Babies terrify me and Children up to around seven make me extremely uncomfortable and I want nothing to do with it. I’m just under 30 so it hasn’t been easy to get my OBGYN on board with a tubal ligation, I’m still working on it. My fiancé is good with not having kids. He loves kids, he’s great with kids and he’s a kindergarten teacher but he’s not interested in having children of his own. I get soooo much judgement for this. So many women are nasty and unsupportive of me not wanting children, I don’t go in this much detail I just say I don’t want kids. They often try talking me out of it and it’s getting old. I’m frustrated and upset. Obviously my parents aren’t the happiest but they’ve kind of started to accept it. My grandmother is not okay with it and boy do I hear it.

So I guess I’m just wondering. Are there any other women out there that don’t want kids, for their own reasons not necessarily my reasons. I feel so alone in this.