Happy..

Hi ladies! Just want to say how happy I am to see all these wonderful posts about love, babies etc.

My boyfriend of 8 years had an emotional affair last month and stupidly I decided to let him back and try counseling. We will start our first session next month. He went to high school with this girl.. spend a week talking online/phone and basically we had a fight, broke up and he asked her to be his girlfriend later that day. He told me he was falling for her. I said you can't love someone you only spent 2 physical days with. He said he doesn't love her (but he's falling for her???) She even said she loved him! In those 2 days he met her kids (2 from 2 diff dads🔺️) she tried to have unprotected sex with him and said she was ovulating. Also wanted to give him a blowjob unprotected as well. I really think he thinks that he loves her. He told me he doesn't feel the same about me anymore but still wants to work on it. He doesn't care that he hurts me. He keeps defending her. She told him she didn't care that we were together because she wanted him.. I am still heartbroken, he says get over it. I am trying counseling to have a better foundation for our children.. but I don't know how I am going to handle seeing him with her once I end it.. she'll be pregnant in a month.. So much time and dreams.. wasted. How will I get through this...

Anyways, your posts lift me up.. honestly. It is amazing to see love.. real love. It gives me hope during I time I really need it.. I am so happy to see happiness.

Sorry for getting of topic.

Update on the red triangle: I have many half siblings.. I am not judging that.. I will be in that same boat one day. it isn't about that.. she doesn't have a relationship with either father because they believe she is toxic. She told my "bf" that having a relationship with me is toxic for the children. *a friendly relationship* she wanted to get pregnant by a man she barely knows.