If your boyfriend who never wanted to go on vacations wanted to go out for his 21st birthday 3hours away to lake of the ozarks with his ‘work friends’ (let me remind you he comes home talking a lot of crap on them saying how they cheat on there girlfriends, and sleep around with a lot of people, and take a lot of drugs) for the weekend, mind you whenever I mention a vacation it’s always not the right time or just always an excuse. Mind you also I am pregnant, I just don’t feel comfortable and I would never do anything nor have ever done anything to disrespect him, if he said he didn’t feel comfortable I wouldn’t go simple or I’d try to make it to where he felt the most comfortable, I just feel like it’s a respect thing? Am I crazy and overreacting? Orrrrr?