Small penis?

Question

So I recently started seeing this guy but I've been putting off sex because his penis is on the smaller side.
He is very good with his hands and mouth so I don't have doubt he will be able to pleasure me but honestly I'm a bit embarrassed because I feel like i cant pleasure him.
He says he takes really long to cum from bjs but I don't know if its just me because I'm not sure how to give a bj to a smaller penis (I can't use both my hands and mouth at the same time like I'm use to)
And if we have sex I'm scared of being on top and slipping out however I want to be in a position where I can please him too.
Please give me tips on bjs and sex tips to help best please HIM?

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With a bj, use one hand at the base, and your mouth more focused on the tip and suck hard and occasional use your tongue to add pleasure. Use your other hand to cup his balls or apply light pressure to the frenulum. Some guys like when you put a finger up their bum too, but that may be a little too familiar at first. Also my husband loves having his balls lightly sucked and usually makes him cum very quickly. Just be creative as you get more comfortable with one another. Also try 69ing; dudes love that usually because it offer visual and physical activity.
As far as sex goes, there are so many positions to explore that don’t have you on top. Try missionary and all kinds of varieties, doggy style and all sorts of positions from behind (my husband loves to enter from behind and i stand and then touch my toes). If you really want to be on top have him sit on the edge of the bed and you straddle him (forward or backward) and that way he can use his feet on the floor to thrust into you. He won’t pull out of you the way you might pull off of him of him if you’re the one dictating the motion. Or try more traditional girl on top but make your motions more front to back than up and down, and have him stimulated your clit while you slowly move. Again you can reach around behind you and cup his balls or apply pressure to the frenulum too, to give him added stimulation. Hope that helps

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I don’t think he’ll be bummed if you don’t use hands! If anything, it’d make it easier to deep throat ;) try not to overthink it, your nerves could be contagious and nobody gets off if everyone is nervous. I had a similar experience a few years back and once I stopped focusing so much on the size and how things were different, we started to just enjoy exploring each other’s body’s. Every man is different and sometimes two men can be the exact same size and like totally different things. For now, start slow, suck that thing down your throat and throw him some sexy eye contact here and there and he’ll be in heaven! 
Also: don’t disregard grinding! Sitting on it and rubbing on it with your hoohah can be amazing for both parties. And when you work into more positions, try putting your ankles on his shoulders when he’s on top!!! He’ll hit your g spot oh so nicely. 😉

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My ex was on the small side of average and I found oral to be really easy. I alternated between using my mouth and hand. It was big enough I could use my hand and still suck the head so I did that to finish him off. I rode him all the time, just do smaller strokes or grind. The only time slipping out was an issue is during doggy and sometimes missionary.

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I dated a guy who was on the smaller side and he had a hard time cumming from blow jobs too; I think he was self-conscious. One thing I actually enjoyed with him was anal since I hadn’t explored it with previous men. Best decision ever!!!!!!

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Uhhhhhh yo it’s not too late to find that big D ! 👏🏽 ya’ll arnt married are you ? Cuz it’s that small it could slip out ? You guys arnt the perf lock and key if ya feel me

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Well i’ve been dating a guy that has a smaller one too and I also was not used to it when I met him. But with blowjobs you don’t need your hand because the hand is usually there so you don’t choke and gag as often but with the smaller one you don’t really need the hands because it’s not as big. And with sex you just can’t lift your body all the way off of his thing or fall out very easily so I don’t stay on top too much I just let him kind of go at it but when I am on top I am careful with how I move in certain positions.

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I’ve had some pretty good regular sex with a smaller p. Ability is worth more than size, he might surprise you.

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Oh Lord lol

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Just work with your tongue more :)

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