my wedding is in like 4 weeks...

One of my close cousins parents are going through a dirty divorce, only one parents was invited for those reasons obv the one that is blood related.

NONE of those people (second cousins which there are about 40 of them) have RSVP for my wedding yet due to they will not come if the other parent is invited.

So my cousin reached out upset that one of their parents were not invited and wanted to know why, I didn’t put anything in the way kind of just blamed it on the divorce so it doesn’t get worse than it is.

Do you think it is right for 40 people to not have rsvp yes or no at this point ? We are literally 3 weeks away after this weekend.

My brain is on fire with 101 other things and this is just adding to it.

I’m very hurt and annoyed and angry all at the same time, I feel it is very selfish of everyone, i didn’t invite both parents to make it very clear to all my relatives so there was no confusion.

If I had the option I would have invited the other parent! They have been more involved and supportive my entire life... like what the actual fuck.

Someone please cheer me up and tell me it gets better 😭