Ok so about 2 months ago me and my husband came to the mutual realization that we wanted to start having kids. So I’ve been like actively trying and I’ve been checking when I’m ovulating and when I’m most fertile and what not. I tell my husband which day we should have sex cause it’s when I’m most fertile or whatever (idk this stuff is all new and confusing to me lol) anyways he says we’ll try and make one or whatever and then when it gets down to it there’s always some excuse. He’s always too tired or he’s in Pain or just not in the mood. So idk what the normal amount of sex people have when they’re trying to get pregnant but we only have sex about 1-2 times every 2 weeks and from what I’ve read they say to have sex every other day especially when you’re ovulating. Idk if that’s right tho cause like I said this is all new to me so I guess I don’t really know. But my husband is the one who came to me first and was like I want to have a baby and he said he’s felt that way for like over a year or something like that and I’ve kinda been wanting to ya e a baby too but I feel like he’s blowing me off and I feel like he doesn’t really want a baby cause it’s not like he’s actually trying. I’ve tried to talk to him about it but we always end up fighting about he doesn’t want to/nor do we need to be having sex all the time. He says if it happens then it happens basically I guess. I have no one else to talk to cause I wanted it to be a surprise to our family and friends but idk if maybe I’m being too excessive about trying or whatever. Maybe I’m just ranting? Idk I guess I just felt like he’d be trying to have a baby as much as I’m trying. I really don’t know. Does anyone have any advice or something? Idk