Last year my husband was talking to women online through Snapchat and even creating online dating websites. We sought out marriage counseling which he claimed that if helped him this past year but I’ve still been having troubling trusting him again. We started going to a new counselor and she discussed that we be open with each other especially him and what he is doing.

I have access to his Facebook and noticed that he looked up a women’s name the other day and when I looked at it again he had deleted his history. He also goes on apps like LetGo and I noticed he would message people (all women) saying he was interested in an item they were selling and ask when he could look at the item. Never once had he told me he was looking for things to buy and let alone ask to meet up with the person selling the item. While none of the conservations were sexual it just triggers all these emotions considering his history with online websites and the fact that the items he was looking at were being sold by women, and things we really don’t need 😔 just feeling so frustrated and insecure

UPDATE: so I wrote this original post maybe a week ago now. I hadn’t confronted him about it since I really just wasn’t wanting to sound over paranoid but tonight I just found the truth that he is a completely liar. I went through his phone on his LetGo app and it turns out he had been in contact with a woman since Feb about a Nikon camera bag. They had been back and forth about when they could meet up but the really fucked up part is that

1. WE DONT HAVE A NIKON CAMERA

2. He went to check out the camera bag today when he told me he was out grocery shopping

3. Told this chick if her and her husband ever needed “professional pictures” taken to let him know..... HE IS NOT A PHOTOGRAPHER. The photos he takes on his cell phone are awful. And I think he just said that since probably he didn’t know she was married when originally contacting her.

Honestly I know it doesn’t sound like much especially since there was nothing sexual going on from what I read. But the fact that he hadn’t even told me about buying items online or let alone meeting up with these people and even lying to them. He is full of shit and I’m ready to put his ass on blast about this