Narcissist ex.... Need advices ladies.
Ex and I were together for a year ....
Before we started seriously dating I had sex with my ex and told him about it. He found out an item at my apt and needed to be honest.
Month in a half after non officially dating he went on a vacation, went to visited his mom and told her I was his GF w/out even asking me. His mom asked me on the phone cause that’s how we got introduced.
Three months later after officially dating I asked him to moved in with me. I felt bad for him because he was sleeping at his sister couch.
At the beginning everything was like the relationship I always wanted to be in.... Months went by and he made sure I didn’t socialited with my friends like I used to. On my days offs he took them off, when sometimes I needed it my space. He changed up his whole schedule around just because he didn’t wanted me to be alone on the weekends. He made sure I stopped talking to my friends and didn’t liked the relationship my bff and I had. Wasn’t allow to go out or hangout w friends. I was emotional abused. It was horrible!!! He yelled at me so many times to the point I was scared he might hit me. I was scared of him.. I was walking on egg shells the whole year we were together. His treatment silents used to last one to two weeks. Whenever I wanted to talk to him about his behaviors he used to used my ex mistake and turned the table around. Told me I deserved to be treated and talked that way. Anyhow he made sure I paid for my mistake to the point I’m so broken and became a codependent.
We broke up on December— My bday its in December he didn’t got me a gift instead he didn’t talked to me the whole week. He broke up w me on Xmas day. Moved out on January the 5th. We didn’t talked for 3 months and one day he texted me. We reconnected again and guess what ? Month later he told me I needed to block, delete or no have Instagram because he didn’t like my male friends or even females because they might wanted to f@ck me too.
I gave so much in this relationship. I was constantly proving him wrong. Proving myself to him. I aliened myself from the world. I did whatever he told me to.
Now my question is.... He send me a text after he told me he won’t contacted me again that he was done with me.
Was this is closure or he’s just trying me ??? Because he keep hovering and want me to beg him not to leave me like I did before while we were together. Btw he treated me by saying that, before in the relationship and after we reconnected.
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