Help me get my confidence back and give me some tips please 😭♥️

I’m in need of some beauty advice. I’ve lost some of my confidence lately mainly because I haven’t dyed my hair in months and I’m not as good at doing my make up anymore and need some tips.

So here are my hairstyle options:

cut it a little shorter like it used to be (I should add I have naturally curly hair I just straighten it)

Option 1:

Let it grown out like in this picture (was extensions but I’ve been trying to grow my hair out to look like this for forever)

Option 2:

Or leave it like it is now:

Option 3:

It’s not a whole lot longer now than it used to be but I can tell a difference.

ALSO list some products that help with big pores. It never used to be an issue for me but now it’s a huge issue. Thanks in advance ladies.

Or some products that help curly hair not be so frizzy.

Or if you have other hair suggestions. Io need help and I need my confidence back.