So it started about 2 weeks ago.

He didn’t want to have sex. On two separate days last week . This is the same man that would beg me for sex even if we had it 4xs that day. On the second day he came into the room after saying he didn’t want sex and snuggled me and started crying .

My husband is not a crier. He’s cried maybe 3 times in the almost 11 years we have been together . I comforted him and he just kept saying how sorry he was. I told him it’s no big deal people don’t want to have sex sometimes , I told him it’s okay I’m super pregnant I don’t want it all the time either .

Fast forward to this week. He has been angling his phone away from me , but when it is in my view he makes it a big deal to tilt it towards me. And looks at me to make sure I look at his phone . He never leaves it lying around anymore. He will charge his phone for 3 mins and then he will take it downstairs with him. Like his phone has been on 10-20% the entire time he is home to keep this up.

He has also become obsessed with his appearance lately . Before he was saying “I won’t diet while you’re pregnant.” And now he is counting calories (something he would announce he loathed), and is signing up for gym memberships .

Today he texted me and said he wants to go to the gym after the kids are asleep. Also never happened before.

I dunno if I’m being crazy or just the right amount of suspicious . I’m on bedrest... but I’ve tried to still be a good wife .