Omg why am I so annoyed

I feel horrible! I love my daughter, I was constantly reminding my SO to be patient with our daughter she’s just a baby and I’ve failed on my own saying.

I feel so annoyed with her. I’m with her 6 days of the week, with help a few days but I just find myself to wits end because I feel like she cries all the time. And of course because she’s a baby and that’s how they communicate but I can’t get over the feeling sometimes.. she’s 4.8 months and she cries when she’s hungry, wet, TIRED!!!, bored etc. but like when she’s bloody murder screaming because she’s tired and then won’t sleep I just feel like giving her lil spanks but it’s not her fault it’s mine 😞🥺😞😞😪😩