She talk with me all the time about leaving but she really loves him....she been with him for about 3 years with 1 kid with him he have a kid too and he's handicapped...anyway...she works all the time while he basically does nothing but sit at home on the game or computer burning DVDs to sell stays up all night and sleep most of the day....he don't give her any money at all he never have it...but when his nieces ask for money he give it to them....when she get paid he takes her check...all of it.....she have to get up to put his son on the school bus every morning and go to work...then when she get off work she has to clean up and cook...see about her child and his handicapped son that have homework from school her bf never helps with bathe him every night and struggle to take back and forth to the bathroom..then he have the nerve to want sex every night if she don't give it to her he watches porn in front of her while she's trying to sleep and blast it.when she say she's hurting or tired he tells her she has phychosamatic syndrome (spell check)....everytime she leaves home to go to a family outing or to hang out with me she have to take her child and his son and when she don't want to take his son he gets mad and tell her she's being mean because he's handicapped...and when we want to have a girls night out she have to find a babysitter for her son and his son so he can follow her and when he comes it's always an argument she can never enjoy herself....when she can't get a sitter for his son she has to stay home....he tells her once she became a mom there's no more fun but he can come and go as he please to get drunk with his sisters and friends and come home and start shit with her when she don't want to have sex because he reeks of beer and she hate the smell of beer...he's broke her phone and burned her work clothes before because she had a dude number in it that she never used...but she caught him on one of his drunken nights talking to her older cousin on the phone about sex...she also caught her cousin texting his phone about eating her pussy...and have woke up to that same cousin daughter asleep on their couch after she went to bed a couple of times and she feel like he's fucking her too...she also heard a girl describing his car and how he paid her for sex....he sold her laptop and busted her lips and broke her glasses during a fight in front of the kid...I keep asking her why don't she just leave and she said she don't have anywhere to go with their 1 year old son and I told her she can live with me until she gets back on her feet...but she just won't leave and I really hate her bf and want to tell him off so bad be abuse I love my friend and don't want to see her go thru that....I just want her to be happy just want to know should I stand up to him myself have someone to whoop that ass or just mind my business????advice please!!!!!I'll give an update if she leaves...