Boyfriend being secretive. What do I do?

My boyfriend has recently made new friends. Doesn’t say much about them. Never tells me when they all hang out, sometimes even lies about it or pulls a “oh I thought I told you” once I find out on my own. Recently found out his friends are women. And he was extremely careful not to ever mention it by saying shit like “someone” or using gender neutral terms until he slipped once. I don’t care for him having female friends. But for these to be fairly new friends and for him to be so secretive about them makes me very upset. And I know sometimes they hide it for the reaction. But for me, there would be no problem if he had just been honest and open rather than trying to hide the facts. What do I do?

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Well first of all, you need to make it very clear to him just how he’s making you feel when he hides things. If you’ve done that already and nothing has changed,,, you have to decide if you want to stay in a relationship with your guy pulling crap like that. If you want to know what I would do, I wouldn’t trust him and I would leave if talking to him didn’t change anything. But maybe that’s just me, and that’s okay.