Is it okay to be upset with somebody for getting pregnant?

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Do you believe its okay to be literally furious and upset with somebody for getting pregnant, before you do? 
Back Story:
I am currently pregnant, 25 weeks. My best friend was trying to get pregnant ( i had no idea, i didn’t even purposely get pregnant either ) and ever since ive gotten pregnant, shes been so mad at me and hasn’t even spoke to me hardly, tells me i always take everything from her and that i purposely got pregnant because she was trying? which again, had no idea she was trying and i was surely NOT trying.

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No, that’s not okay. Everyone’s fertility is their own and each one of us has our own journey to take. Just know that she isn’t exactly upset with you - rather, it is a battle she is battling within.

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No but I can totally see others being mad over it. People can be so selfish.

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That sounds ridiculous, so ridiculous that its childish and petty like no other.

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I don’t like when someone takes out their own restoration out on someone else.  Her not getting pregnant has nothing to do with you getting pregnant.  I think most the time when I heard (read) someone say will they got pregnant because we been trying is just rude and immature. Come on. No one got pregnant because you wanted to.  I’m sorry she mad at you.  But I have been in her place where people I know don’t even want kids were having kids and I lost two pregnancies. But I never took it out on them.

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Your “friend” doesn’t sound much like a friend at all, she’s a brat you’re better off without her

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No that’s not ok and I would honestly start to end the friendship. I had a close friend that did something similar  and everything I did was always an issue for her and a competition I wasn’t trying to be apart of. The friendship wasn’t worth the drama.

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No, it is really ridiculous to get mad at someone for getting pregnant before you.

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She sounds ridiculous and toxic. Maybe it’s something she wants so bad which makes her act that way, but definitely not reasonable.

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No I don’t think it’s necessarily “okay” but I would say as her friend just be understanding sometimes it’s harder for women to conceive I wouldn’t take it personal

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It’s not really okay but I can understand her jealousy. My husband and I tried for about 8 months and the week I found out I was pregnant my best friend told me she was 3 months along and had gotten pregnant the first time. I was happy for her but also a little jealous that I had struggled so much and she was upset she got pregnant so fast. I would try to talk to her and let her know that you didn’t know she was trying, but even if you did know it’s not like you can out your life on hold and wait for her to get pregnant. If she’s a real friend she will come around

Is it okay to be upset with somebody for getting pregnant?

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