Hubs family without the lecture..

Hi, my name is Alyssa and I just found out yesterday I'm pregnant! Husband and I have 2 wonderful girls -almost 2 and 9 months old- so this is mind racking. How did you do it with 3 LOs running around? I'm 12 weeks and 3 days pregnant. Hubs family is constantly nagging about us having another child, that it would be a disaster.. I'm sick of it, so debating on when to tell them or to tell them at all is a challenge! When did you let the unsupportive family know you were preg and how?

Stressing about how to tell them..