Okay, so usually I dont make comments or post things. But here of late my fiance has been very...overbearing? I dont know how to explain it. I'm currently living with his grandmother and uncle due to some extreme family issues. I've been living here for a year now and my fiance has been more strict on everything I do. I have to send photos of my TV, my door closed and locked, and what I'm wearing every ten minutes while his at work. I also have to keep him on call throughout the night while I sleep so he can hear what I'm doing. His family says its control and possession that keeps him with me. That he doesn't actually love me. I dont know what to think. I know that I love him and care for him but later in my future I want to have a job and provide for myself, which he doesn't want me doing. He says when we get our own place I cant leave at all. I love my fiance, but I dont know what to do about his actions or attitude. I've confronted him a thousand times and each time he says, 'if you dont like it leave ' what should I do?