Why do most women prefer successful men?

Question

I am a male here asking you ladies - Why do most women prefer successful men?

Accepted Answer

Successful men have their shit together. It’s nice to be with someone that can take care of himself

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Because most women want a family and stability.

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If I tell you I don't like someone for his appearance, I am lying.
if I tell you I don't like someone for his power, I am lying.
if I tell you I don't like someone for his connection, I am lying.
If I tell you I don't like someone for his money, I am lying. 
if I tell you I don't like someone for his success, I am lying.
I am too practical and honest to lie. 
I know - Most average men would leave and hate me for it. 
They hate me because I point out the problem in their lives and they hate facing it. It is just easier to blame the Asian girl. She must be a gold digger who only cares about money. Sorry, It is kind of hard to love someone if you are going to starve to death. I am honest.
Being an independent and successful woman, I expect my partner to be the same and better. He needs to know how to make money, build relationship, manage wealth, plan his life etc. Dating is not a babysitting service.  
What is wrong with wanting the best? oh it is wrong because most people are not the best. Most people hate facing reality. Most people are a mess and calling me a gold digger makes them feel better. If they spend less time hating me and more time working on themselves, they would have a better life.
I wanted the best and got the best I can. 😊  of course, I became the best I can before meeting him. it does feel good when you know you will always have a job, plenty of savings, have someone be there for you, and you never have to argue about money with your partner.

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I’m a successful woman and I want my match 😉 but successful means different things for different people. For me it was more about ambition than money.

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I didn’t need my partner to be successful in the sense of making a lot of money, but I wanted him to be a hard worker and motivated like I am. Someone who is a partner and an equal. But primarily, I wanted someone who was kind, sweet, honest, genuine, and had a good sense of humor! Success can come and go. But a person who uplifts me and makes life more fun and easier in the sense that they enjoyed helping out is what was and is important to me.

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Stability duh!

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It depends for me...
I expect him to work and contribute to our household, yes - pay his half of the rent, food, bills etc
However... I am the breadwinner. I want to stay the breadwinner and if that means I pay for the treats and holidays and spending money, fine. That includes if he’s short and needs money to travel to work or something until his next payday as he doesn’t drive. I’m fine with that.
He doesn’t want a high powered job and is happy in his current one. As long as he works. I do have a high-ish powered job at the moment after being promoted twice and am in the process of being promoted again. 
I was a student and then extremely ill while with my ex, to the point I nearly died. This meant I was financially dependent on that cheating POS! NEVER AGAIN! I completely changed my life after leaving that scumbag. Dated someone briefly before I got with my now-husband. That guy was more successful than me (at that point in time) and it felt like I was always in competition with him, which I didn’t like

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Because I don’t want to be a mans’ MOM, nor do I want to do the job his mother didn’t complete, or he projects onto me.

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I was raised not to settle ... So I wouldn't choose to be with a POS.

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Because who wants to be with someone theyll have to support without much help?

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