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Victim to abuse. Single/pregnant

So Friday may 24th my husband got drunk for his birthday and kept bringing up my ex well I got upset. He then tried showing his penis 2 times in front of everyone which made me even more mad/upset. He ended up hitting me in my back. Grabbed my arm hard . And tried tripping me 2 times. Well I called my mom as I had enough of him abusing me and putting me down. My mom was out of town at camp so she called my grandma. Grandma was on her way to me as I waited for the cops to show. He got arrested at 3am. Well on Sunday morning I had a test and something just told me to take it so I did and I never get that feeling and it came up blazing positive so fast. His family took his car which had my daughters car seat. Luckily my daughter was with her dad for weekend and he is allowing me to use his car seat until my mom is back from camp which is later on today. I’ll be moving all my stuff out. He won’t be out until Tuesday. His family doesn’t believe he actually hurt me and that I did it myself. Only my family knows about my pregnancy test. I’m absolutely scared. I’ve had a miscarriage before with my ex (daughters father) I really don’t want to go through another. I also don’t want to abort or give baby up for adoption as that would be way to hard on me. I plan to find a job and try finding a car/place before this Baby arrives in April. But some of my family keep saying my test can be false when I 100% trust this test. We was trying to conceive started in March. Please tell me everything will be okay and encouragement words. Any of you been through this before.