So idk how I feel about this. On one hand he’s not going out to bars and driving to get drunk... but also... a couple nights a week he’ll just drink at home to the point where he’s clearly tipsy. So I’m glad he stays home - & it’s not like he’s a crazy or mean drunk. He just gets annoying and horny when he’s drunk... so idk... I feel like that’s not that bad. But I still tell him he has a drinking problem. (He doesn’t think so & says “why can’t you just take care of me like I take care of you when you’re drunk”)

Please be kind. I’m trying to figure out how to handle this, not break up with him. So please don’t go there... If you wanna be a dick about this subject, just don’t.