Okay, so here’s the situation. I live in Idaho away from my parents and want to do a baby shower here, but I know my mom and MiL will want one closer to them (it’s really hard for MiL to travel because she’s a little older and has MS that’s progressing somewhat quickly). Is it tacky or self centered or selfish to have a baby shower here and another one closer to them? I don’t want anyone to feel left out and it’s causing unnecessary stress because I kind of know what I want to do with a baby shower already, but I know they would be totally upset if I didn’t include them. What do you think? Would you do two? Keep in mind all my friends are here and I don’t know anyone who lives in their area because I haven’t lived there before