So my boyfriend and I love to videotape tape us having sex. I also have a tumblr where I post pics of myself, not nudes, but still sexy stuff.

We have talked a lot about going into porn together and stuff. And bless my boyfriend, but he’s dense, he can’t tell where the line is.

So we are talking and suddenly I get a random add on snap, add the guy. Turns out he’s a porn Star from Britain.

My boyfriend decided to submit a video of me to him.

I snapped at him how it was a betrayal to me, and he explained he thought I would like it, and that I already post online. I told him that I chose that stuff. I said that if he had asked I would’ve been fine with it, but he just did it without permission.

I can say he did feel like shit after and all day he’s been trying to make it up to me.

I know to some people it’s a red flag, but I can see WHY he got confused. Like I said he’s a bit dense, and he’s never, ever done this before. In fact, typically I’m the one asking to post and stuff, so I can see the confusion.

I just needed to rant, like I said, to him, sex and all that stuff he’s dense too. He views it like selfies or something, he forgets that I care who sees.