So I was hooking up with a bouncer of a club I go to a lot. We would hook up multiple times a week & we were cool with each other. Sometimes I'd go over & he'd ask to me bring food, in which I did. And sometimes I'd just spend the night. We never made anything official so we could talk to other people if we wanted but yet we would talk everyday. I mean he's a cute bouncer so I'm sure he had other people to talk to. But one night I had went out to a different club & saw his roommates out. After the club closed they invited me to the apartment for a kickback they were having so I went to have fun & see HIM. But when I did go, he had a girl over. She had a boyfriend but yet she was still over with HIM in the room watching movies. So I got drunk that night because I was really upset, & I had a conversation with HIM which went really well. All that night he stayed in the room with the girl & not be with his roommates & ME. But somehow I ended up having a 3 some with his roommates which idk how it came about since I was on my period. But after that day, HE hasn't talked to me. I asked to speak in person through text & got no response. I apologized for my actions 2 days after & still no response. I've talked with the roommates & said that HE wasnt mad, but apparently he is if he hasnt talked to me. I've seen him bouncing at the club & we'll make eye contact, but it's been 2 weeks since we've talked & I dont know what to do. I really want to talk in person to talk it out but I don't know if I should just leave everything like it is, actually initiate to meet knowing I may not get a response, or just show up at the apartment. He's 21 and I'm 23.