He sed I should have an abortion

He told me to consider having an abortion it wasn’t in a malicious way he was trying to look out for me he sed he doesn’t think I’m ready and I need to be set before having children he asked me half an hr later what I thought I was going to do I sed I don’t know this guy has a little crush on me and sed he wants me to move to where he lives before this happend he’s not the child’s father he’s then posted a video of new clothes saying I can treat myself because I have no kids why has he posted that and what’s that ment to mean towards me what’s he trying to say I’m sick of being slut shamed for becoming pregnant