When your husband wants a huge iftar every night, but refuses to buy you pots so you have to cook from very early on because you only have 2 frying pans!!!!!

Mind you we live in the US is not like we don't have the money, he just spent $600 in tools for a future job because at this stage of his life wants to switch careers and so he will start trading school but won't graduate till 2 years from now, but if I ask for pots, you have 2 you have been doing till now, what's the problem?

we have 2 children 3 and 2.

I don't know how much more I can take.