Awful bed and nap times

My two year old everyday twice a day for nap and bed time has screaming meltdowns. It doesn’t matter if we have a routine change the routine no routine bribe him get upset with him extra loving and comforting. NOTHING is working.

I also have a newborn and I’m losing both sanity and patience here. Please tell me this is a phase and it’ll be over soon.

Oh and to make matters even more frustrating he’s been waking up daily at 5am and it doesn’t matter if he naps doesn’t nap short naps long naps moving bed time. I’m starting to hate parenthood and honestly resent him and I feel so bad about it.

******* he only takes one Nap a day and is a monster if he misses it ***********