Post vacation blues or something more?

Anyone else go on a girls vacation and then come back home to realize how lame your husband is?

I think I already know the answer, bc I’ve been debating divorce A. LOT.

But I go on little trips w my sister or friends sometimes and get so much attention from guys. Even when I tell them I’m married. I just feel really appreciated and beautiful and special — without any cheating going on. I even LAUGH more and feel HAPPY, when in my own marriage we don’t have the same sense of humor.

I came back home and I honestly tried to be sexier and appreciate him

More and use his love language (physical touch). But there’s a constant disconnect.

When I talk to him about all of this there’s no progress. He says sorry and this and that but that’s what he always SAYS. He’s yet to DO something. To actually behave different.

How long do you “try to make it work” before you just move on? I feel like it’s been years (sad to say) that we’ve been working towards some mystery goal of a happy compatible marriage.

Sucks cu all these factors are in my mind: two year old, two dogs, just bought a house, I don’t have a job right now (sahm).

We materialistically “have it all” but I’m unhappy.

My family doesn’t see the true ugliness of my marriage so they don’t really agree w me. And besides I don’t rly tell them

Much bc I think that’s a bad idea. Should try to work it out w spouse first.

Idk maybe it’s just the fantasy or lustful feeling of being wanted by other attractive men or maybe I am realizing I want that more than what I have with my husband now

Some nonjudgmental advice or thoughts would help me. Thanks