I’ve been on bedrest since 20 weeks . I’m currently 31 (almost 32 😃) weeks pregnant. I’m only allowed to go to drs visits.

I have kidney failure , and severe SPD.So basically I’m on a crap ton of medication- most of which make me sleep.

So my stepson is going to his moms out of state for a week tomorrow.

I took my medication for pain today and laid down. I cooked dinner for both of them and left it in the microwave for when they got home. My husband comes up here and said “so your just not going to spend anytime with curt????” I’m off my rocker . My eyes are closing . I’m about to not feel pain for the first time today. Then he said “why don’t you come with us to swim practice?” Home boy I can hardly walk...much less sit in those stupid chairs. Oh not to mention I DUNNO... BEDREST = my bed or my couch??? I literally had to use a rolling office chair to make dinner . Tf you mean “just come”?

He’s done this to me numerous times and then acts like I’m awful for not coming . Like BEDREST does not equal walking around kid activities. It equals me sleeping and laying down in one way shape or form... sometimes I feel feisty and sit up.

Am I wrong ? Should I just take my drug induced self to this one thing ?