Need advice

Mr

We were planning on getting our girls ears pierced today. A reward for our oldest for staying dry all day and night for a month, she had a horrible regression, plus she’s been asking. And as a birthday present for our youngest. Our oldest had a small accident yesterday after a whole month of staying completely clean and dry, but she told us and got herself cleaned up and changed. I still believe she should be rewarded. My husband not he other hand doesn’t think she should because she hasn’t really been listening to well..she’s 5 and strong willed, so a lot of things are a battle but that’s a different topic.

Update::

I told him some of the things you ladies posted and he agreed.

Both girls got their ears pierced! They did fantastic!