Ladies! I hope everyone is doing well!! I could be doing better, but I just need to vent. My husband and I are pregnant with our rainbow 🌈 baby (18wks). With such excitement we were hoping for a normal pregnancy, but it’s beginning to be the same as our first. My OB says I am beaking and shows that we may lose this baby too!! I guess I was born with a weak cervix and I feel like I wasn’t meant to have babies. 😢 I am currently restricted to staying on the couch and only moving when needing to use restroom and bathe. Dr doesn’t want me to put too much pressure on stomach. Don’t get me wrong my husband and mother in law are doing their best with me and it’s truly hard for me because I’m usually the one who takes care of them. I’m taking all the proper treatments Dr said I need, but it’s heartbreaking to know I may lose another precious being. I have what is called an incompetent cervix and Drs don’t know why or how it happens. Idk what to do or how to feel. We’ve kept this pregnancy a secret for this very same reason. I’ve only shared the news with my mother in law and my mom. Please pray for those of us going though such hard times and hoping and praying God saves our babies and we get to keep them with us! Thank you!!

UPDATE:

I want o thank all of you for support and your wonderful thought and prayers. I see my OB Tuesday for another check of the cervix. We had an anatomy ultrasound scheduled for Thursday too....my husband doesn’t want to go because it’s too hard for him. It’s hard for me too, but I’d rather know what Angel God had blessed us with meanwhile. Thank you again for all of your love and support!! Please keep us in your prayers! God bless you all!!

UPDATE:

Saw OB today and we are 22wks today, but still on bed rest. Dr wants us to make it to 24wks so our baby has a better chance at survivability. Dr didn’t like what she saw this time, so I have to get a shot next week to help my baby’s lungs form faster and stronger. I pray to St. Jude Thaddeus our saint of hopeless cases and to God and I say my rosary twice every other day but say it once a day at least before bed. Prayers needed ladies and I send prayers to all of you mommy’s to be who are in a similar situation. I thank you all in advance and God bless you all ❤️❤️!!

UPDATE: 28wks today

Hello ladies! I know I’ve been MIA for a min, but I’ve been in the hospital since last wk. My water ruptured while I was on the toilet 🚽, but thought I just had to pee a lot. Until the liquids didn’t stop. I was freaked out. The best part of it is that I was not bleeding and still not bleeding. I am currently on permanent bed rest for a while until my 34th wk then Drs will take him out. My family and I are just praying he stays in 6wks more so he has a better chance!! Y’all are so great and thank you!!!