No shows at baby shower.

So, today was my baby shower. It’s my first baby and rainbow baby after 10 years of trying and one miscarriage. EVERYONE seemed to be excited for me. I was looking forward to this day for a very long time, to see family and friends that I haven’t seen in a very long time as well. Why would you RSVP as “Going” and then not even show up or change the RSVP. This wouldn’t hurt except it was mostly family who did it. Even some non family members just decided to ignore the invite altogether. It wasn’t about the gifts, it was about who cares and is there versus who doesn’t. Do they know how hurt I am by it? Should I even say anything??