Husband won’t get his hair cut

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Thanks everyone for your responses. Usually something like this wouldn’t bother me as I’m used to finding peace tidying the house and controlling myself.

But I’m on bed rest in the hospital, everything I do is decided by doctors (what’s best for baby is best for me). I feel like I’m going crazy and losing all control, I’ve reigned in my need to check everyday if he’s done my usual daily cleaning because I don’t want to put that burden on him but this one thing is driving me crazy.

If it was a case of him liking his hair how it is and wanting to grow it out I’d be fine with it, he just “can’t be bothered” getting it cut in the style he likes it best. (His words).

If you have any advice on where I could focus my attention while in the hospital that might help.

I know it’s such a very small thing but I’ve lost a lot of choices this pregnancy.

I’m most likely going to have him in the next two weeks, but any appointment could mean go time.

I asked him to get his hair cut ~2 weeks ago because he hasn’t for quite a while and has let his hair grow out, not because he likes it like this but because he can’t be bothered going to the hairdresser.

I’ve always had control issues and like for things to be planned and controlled and I’m losing a lot of that.

Baby is probably going to be here in two weeks

Baby is probably going to come by csection (not what I wanted)

We won’t get to hold him.

But I just want what I can control to be good.

I finished the nursery before I got admitted

Prepared all his clothes

Hospital/birth bags packed

Researching anything I possibly can

I just want him to do this one small thing so that on the off chance we do get to hold him we could have a nice picture to remember it by and not him looking ungroomed.

I feel alone, and useless.