ok so this guy and i have been talking on and off for four years through text and last night was the first time we hung out (we’re also family friends so like outside of family functions) we were hooking up and he asked me to give him head when i said that i would if he would he got all weird and said he doesn’t do that but i don’t want to have sex right off the bat. i have no idea what to do i really like this kid and he’s fun to be around eventually it may happen but i don’t know if i can go ok with a one sided sexual relationship for long. please help😭