So my baby just turned 5 months old. There are a couple of times we have needed her to spend the night at my moms and I’ve left her there no problem. I’m never worried with her there.

Well, my husbands family has started asking why she can’t spend the night at their house. The truth is, I’m just not comfortable with it. I get this bad feeling in my gut whenever they ask. His dad has some really creepy friends, all about 50 or so. One tried to kiss me in their garage, forced me into the corner. Another, sells HARD drugs. And then all 3 of them like to make comments to me and his sister. Stuff like “I wish you were older so I wouldn’t have to worry about your age” and well you can imagine the rest. His dad NEVER stands up for us and blows it off. He actually jokes around because he knows I don’t like being there when they’re there. He always says “I thought we could have “blank” watch the baby for awhile how’s that sound? Like, ITS NOT A DAMN JOKE.

So, I don’t want her there because I don’t trust his mom enough to stand up for my daughter. She kind of just sits by and watches things happen. I just don’t know how to go about it without hurting my husbands feelings. His whole family is just kind of wacky and I don’t want her there when I’m not. The other day we went out to dinner and his dad got mad and asked why we couldn’t have dropped our baby off with them. he says this EVERYTIME WE GO OUT ANYWHERE. I never want her to spend the night there 😞

What do I do 😭

Updated to add: my husband just kind of shrugs. He knows where I’m coming from but just for st see it the way I do unfortunately.