Who here has been using withdrawal method and hasn’t gotten pregnant yet?

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I want to know. Who here has been using withdrawal method and hasn’t gotten pregnant yet?
Long story short... I had sex like 12 times+ with my boyfriend and we were unprotected but he pull out successfully every single time. He always make sure that he pees after sex so that he has no live sperms inside (his precum doesn’t have sperm from last sex). I also made sure that I wasn’t fertile ( I was on my infertile days). We were careful but we know it’s not also safe. My boyfriend and I will get married later in like 2 years but we are very secured. He is successful but I’m still a college student so I don’t want kids. 
Tell me your stories. Who hasn’t get pregnant YET with withdraw method?

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Just a bit of information here, him peeing after sex won't change the fact that precum always contains a small amount of sperm. But you know that pulling out isn't reliable already I think so proceed at your own risk. Good luck!

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Me. But I’m not trying or avoiding. I don’t know why anyone would use it if they 100% do not want kids. It isn’t foolproof and it just takes having sex on the wrong day to fall pregnant.

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So my husband and I went about 2.5 years using this method with no issues. I think it’s one of those things where for most people, if you’re regular and in tune with your body, it works just fine, for a few others (and I don’t really think there’s a way to know if you’re the “other” until you get pregnant) it doesn’t work as well for probably a multitude of factors. We were married, in our late 20’s/early 30’s and willing to take that chance, I don’t know how willing I would have been to chance it while in college.
I will also add we occasionally used condoms but would almost always start without and he would sometimes finish inside if it was close to when my period was due to start, I felt a million times better off birth control, and when we started trying for a baby I got pregnant our second month actively trying (unfortunately that ended in a miscarriage but I got pregnant again after another 4 months of trying). I have a friend who also swears by pull and pray with her husband and never got pregnant until she wanted to and was trying.
All anecdotal evidence but natural family planning is a real BC method that can have a high rate of success. You may want to look into tracking your BBT, CM, etc if you aren’t already to be even more sure of your fertile window.

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Me and my bf use withdrawal method. But we know if i ended up pregnant we could go to either of our parents for support. We've been together for a year, and had A LOT of sex and ik just bc i havent gotten pregnant yet doesn't mean I'll never get pregnant. We've used a condom once and it was the first time we did anything. Honestly sometimes i think im infertile bc i havent gotten pregnant with this method. He's even pulled out, came, and put it back in without cleaning off (which he cleans off everytime but at the time we were kind of ttc) and no pregnancy. But just bc it works for us doesnt mean itll work for everybody

Who here has been using withdrawal method and hasn’t gotten pregnant yet?

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