Not wanting to socialize after a miscarriage


I had a miscarriage in April from <a href="">IVF</a>. My husband wants to have a bbq at the end of this month and I’m just not up for It. I was supposed to be pregnant this summer. His family are judgmental people. Not about the miscarriage but about everything else in life. They just judge people so that makes me even more anxious. I already feel like a failure because we did <a href="">IVF</a> and now the miscarriage😢 Any advice?