I met a guy last year, and over the past few months we’ve gotten really close. So close till I started having feelings for him, but he would always say he was never ready to be in a relationship. I accepted that, and we continued being friends and just continued spending time together. Over the past few weeks I’ve noticed how distant he’s become, and I just couldn’t understand why. He began to ignore my phone calls and texts. I missed my period in April, but I didn’t think anything of it. I went to the hospital due to some severe cramping and found out I was pregnant. I immediately told him because he’s the only guy I’ve been with for months. First thing comes out of his mouth is”abortion”. I became so angry because I couldn’t believe he would say something like that being that he already has a daughter. I later on found out that the reason he’s been so distant is because he has/had a gf. He ended up having to tell her he has a baby otw, and that didn’t go to well for him. Now that he knows everything, it’s like he hates me. I’m 24 years old and he’s 33. This is my first pregnancy, and I have no support from him because the only thing he’s worried about now is fixing his relationship. Not once has he called to check up on me or anything. Now that I’m pregnant with his child he wants nothing to do with me. He says that I’m just trying to make his life miserable, and I’m so confused cause just the other week we were so close and now I’m just a enemy to him. It hurts to hear someone you’ve became so close to, tell you that they never wanted to be with you, and that you were nothing more but sex to them. Everyday I think about this, and Ive become so stressed thinking about this situation. I’m now 9 weeks pregnant, and idk what to do, or how to deal with any of this. 🤦🏾‍♀️😞