A year ago I found out my husband cheated on me. He went to go get our daughter up from bed after he had worked the night shift at our local PD. His phone buzzed and it was a sext from a girl. Come to find out he had slept with her once and then keep sexting her after that. He says it was one dumb thing he did and he seems to be doing everything to prove it was a one time thing but lately I’ve been thinking over things again and I just don’t see how he can say he loves me and wants to be with me after lying to me about some of the details. I hear his phone buzz and I freak out thinking it’s gonna be the same thing over again. I’ve been married to him five years and don’t want to throw away my marriage but how am I supposed to stay with him?