FTM here. Anyone else out there feel like they aren’t doing their best at home and being a mom or at work? I’ve been back to work a month now and I feel like a failure at work and at mom life. My little one is 4 months old and so precious but I just feel like I have no time for anything. At work I’m still not back in the swing of things and I just think about my precious baby all day or things I need to do when I get home. I’m not excelling at work and my productivity is down. When I go home after work and weekends I’m just thinking about all the stuff I need to get done around the house before I have to go back to work the next day. I just feel defeated.