My wife is immature. She’s a 41 year old child! Okay so back story, we got married fairly quickly and we were doing fine until she started talking to this one chick (her ex) behind my back after she tried to get with her KNOWING we were married. So my wife kept telling me she’s blocked and blah blah blah. Well after every time we argue, she unblocks this chick and talks to her. Trust me, it’s not a jealousy thing, I WANT her to have friends. Take her out, go have fun but this chick tried to talk my wife into sleeping with her the NIGHT we got married. My wife didn’t tell me about it until weeks later and then she became sneaky after that. Fast forward, we are in the final stages of our divorce, she tells me she’s been talking to her again but “not like that”. What evs, we’re not together right? BUT the problem I have is, she wants to have sex, she wants to be everything a married couple is WITHOUT the label. She literally had the cops serve me divorce papers A WEEK AGO. She went behind my back and filed, went and signed the papers and then told them i wasn’t going to comply and sign the papers so she had the agency send an officer. She (out of the blue) begged me to have sex with her yesterday and because I refused, now I’m a big piece of shit. But less than an hour before that I was her babe, I was hers and she was so in love with me and was holding my hand. But because I didn’t want to have sex with her, I’m trash. We talked about it last night, and she attacked me. Blaming me for our failed marriage. Said I ruined something that could’ve worked again all because I wouldn’t sleep with her. 10 minutes before she said that, she had apologized for the way she acted and because I didn’t respond the way she wanted, she blew up on me. I can’t even be upset anymore, I’m completely numb.