Tips on fighting with your partner

Hey guys! So I’ve been dating this guy for a little over four years now, we’ve recently celebrated four years last month. But we don’t always see eye to eye on things and we think differently. We don’t argue an excessive amount but when we do the arguments explodes ( nothing abusive or anything like that). I was just wondering if y’all had tips or advice that could help us not have explosive arguments and try to have more civil discussions and actually solve the problem. Thank you in advance!!