So about a year ago before our wedding I was raped. I told my now husband what happened and he held it against me but I understood he had feeling he needed to work through. Well it’s been a little over a year now and we are trying to get pregnant, having one hell of a time. Then we find out I have a blocked tube, my dr tells me he thinks I have had a sti, I tell him I haven’t been with anyone but my husband (I don’t know what happened but I didn’t think about the prior incident) he gives me this yeah right look and continues on saying he thinks that’s why one of my tubes are blocked and if I do get pregnant I need to come in right away cause there’s a high chance it could be a tubal. I didn’t think anything of it just blew it off that I picked a dick head dr then I read an article stating that 9 out of 10 people with an sti don’t even have symptoms. Could I have gotten an sti over a year ago and not have known?

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No I did not go get a rape test, no testing, did not report it. He ended up getting put into prison for raping and molesting other young girls. My husband drove around trying to find him he was gonna beat him up. He was a close friend of the family to so I/we just assumed he was clean.