I lost my virginity the day before yesterday to my boyfriend. It did hurt but was mostly tolerable. It took a couple tries to put it in however. I did bleed a small bit after sex. Last night, we tried to have sex in the shower, he put *maybe* the tip in and my vagina felt like it had a scratch and hurt worse than my first time. He noticed I was bleeding and when I looked down it was alot. Was this my hymen? And am I able to have sex tonight or will it bleed more? (We didn't continue to have sex because he was afraid to hurt me.) (Ps we did use lube and a condom)